Sex is just the doorway.

Together we can build a new culture of touch and relating.

Join me for healing explorations that conquer shame, reclaim your sense of play, and prioritize pleasure.



Casimir Kotarski runs educational and exploratory retreats that center deep play, authentic relating, and building trust in our desires–and therefore, more trust in ourselves. These group offerings are rooted in my belief in the power of doing this work alongside a community of compassionate witnesses as a profound–and very fun–way to heal.

As a student of somatic sex education and licensed massage therapist, I also offer trauma-informed coaching and bodywork. I believe examining our relationship to sex and our desires is a doorway to building a new culture of relating. Through our work, you will learn how to connect to yourself using creative, somatic explorations that consider what accessing pleasure and your empowered voice can look like in any moment–even in this time of crisis. As we identify and vocalize our full-body “yes!” and fiercest “no,” together we learn to allow ourselves the gifts we need to stay resourced in the undoing of harmful systems that have damaged our relationships with our own guidance, each other, and the planet.

All of you is welcome here.


Offerings

Adar is the name of the Jewish month that falls at the beginning of spring—when winter thaws and we begin to bud again. Joy is said to multiply in Adar. Adar advocates for reawakening to joy and pleasure, even while living under systems that do not prioritize our wellbeing.

All of you is welcome.

All of you is welcome.